Family history (legacy) is a VERY important aspect of how we behave as parents in relationship with our children & spouses. I’m not speaking of pure geneology here, some people are adopted.

I’m speaking of what happened on a one-on-one basis to the parent(you) when they were a child… to the grandparents when they were a child and on and on into history, into infinity…

You see, what’s happening NOW is a direct result of what happened in the past. We may be reacting to it in a positive or negative way AND the impact of our history is still the profound driving force of our reality. Let’s look at ourselves and assess where we are on that evolutionary scale and if we are still doing negative knee-jerk reactions to the various situations we have set up with our families, then it’s PAST time to change!

Do you object to making lasting improvements, life changing enhancements, LEAPS in the thrive factor for yourself and your family? Family life and our individual lives are deeply intertwined. Once you give birth to a human, you are forever changed at the core of who you think you are. You have changed at that moment into a divine caretaker, governor and inspirer. Your assignment, should you choose to accept it, is to thrive and shine as you have never done before.

Hell is a relative place. If I were to attempt to run a marathon right now, I would be in ‘hell’ right along 30 minutes from now yet people run marathons(26 miles) every day somewhere in the world! Parenting is much the same way. It is a grand glorious endeavor that we take for granted. The reality is, it’s a freakin’ relationship marathon. Proper training is an excellent idea so that you and your child(ren) get the most out of the experience otherwise… disaster awaits… some grand, some that wear on the very fiber of your nerves for years on end…

I’m here for you. Tell me, what questions do you have about getting out of parenting ‘hell’?