The Perfect Fit = not you and your family. Just kidding. Of course, the family you have is the perfect fit for you and you for them. There is a saying that says "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." This is oh so true in the case of parenting. In...

Raising children requires too much money = Myth Truth = You have access to all abundance. Raising children is recognized as one of life's most expensive experiences ...but the thought that it requires too much money is a myth. The evidence of which is all around us. I...

Parental paradise looks different to different people...sort of like the definition of financial independence. It's definition depends on the person. You are in parental paradise right now and don't even know it! Whatever the circumstances and experiences you are...

Where are you right now? Are you stuck in parenting hell? Is your energy drained and your mind fried to a crisp? I knew this feeling well. As a single, separated and then divorced Mother, it was all I could do to keep from yelling at my Son every moment. Hell, I...

Great universal question you may be asking yourself!!! What's in this parenting game for me?!! ('Me' meaning you) Why should I bend myself out of shape to accommodate this process? Don't I have enough to do? The answer is 'Yes' to ALL of the above. It's a big fat YES...

You feel like you want to strangle your child!!! How often have we read or heard about the parent that has gone off the deep end? They've drowned their children, done away with child and the spouse or some such crazy act to cope with 'the big challenge'. You know what...

Family history (legacy) is a VERY important aspect of how we behave as parents in relationship with our children & spouses. I'm not speaking of pure geneology here, some people are adopted. I'm speaking of what happened on a one-on-one basis to the parent(you) when...

Hi tech gadgets are my enemy. (parent speaking)= Myth Truth= Technology is your friend. High technology gadgets are here to stay. Many parents feel that they and their dollars are trapped in this onslaught of cell phones, video games, pods, pads, Aston Martin DB5s and...

Home is where the heartache is. How will you know what you need? You will FEEL it. -"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." ~ Unknown- Who is the student? Is it the child or is it You? It's both. There are no accidents. As much as we would like to...

Raising children requires wisdom I don’t have. (Myth) Truth: All you need is The Golden Rule. `Raising children requires wisdom I don’t have’ is something that occurs to people who give the subject serious thought. It has some merit but it is essentially a myth. When...