Own a ‘thorough lover’ relationship with money. Have you ever had a ‘thorough lover’? One who makes sure you are taken care of first? One who lingers…a long time…in caress of all of your sweet spots? Who strokes your mind, gently blowing cool-hot thoughts over your overheated coals? (To help cultivate such, refer to Tanja Diamond’s courses, & Chrystal Bougon’ssite ). Your relationship with money should be like the one had with a thorough lover.

Just like with a thorough lover, when it comes to money, attention to detail heightens the ‘enthusiasm’. There are numerous details involved with the proper handling of money. The least of which is to ‘feel good’ about it at all times. "Feeling good‘ is a deliberate act that says "I am centered in full attention to the appreciation of you". Then, as you would hire a master masseuse, masseur or luxury spa makeover for your lover, have experts give loving attention to every detail that makes your money grow.

As with a thorough lover, when it comes to money, attention to detail produces ‘maximum satisfaction’. This growing of it is the desired result. ‘Maximum satisfaction’ is to have the bursting, full flowering of thundering digits at the desired moment in time. Continuous, flowing waves of cash washing your retirement shores.

You know what else? Parents applying the same loving, thorough detail in their approach to parenting, will slow down and savor more of the little things, be calmer, more ‘present‘ and patient with their kids. More ‘present’ and loving to themselves as individuals. Happier.

I know. The economy is pressing more sweat on people but my point here is: take time out for the thorough lover approach in all that you do. Time is an illusion that you can bend to your will. Linger…a long time… in tender caress of all of Life’s sweet spots knowing that this pleases God and all is well….even money.

What was the most recent non-sexual moment that you held for a long time in soft caress?